R.I.P Bobby Rydell
One of the early teen idols of the Bandstand era – Bobby Rydell passed away on April 5, 2002 of pneumonia, 3 weeks shy of his 80th birthday.
Rydell rose to fame in the late fifties and early sixties as one of the recording acts to be heavily featured on Dick Clark’s American Bandstand. In those days, the program originated in Philadelphia, which was Rydell’s home town.
Born Robert Ridarelli, Bobby began his career winning a local talent contest that secured him a place on a local TV show and earned him a record contract. However, his first couple of singles flopped and his label dropped him.
Changing his name to Rydell, Bobby was signed to Cameo Records and after a few tries, hit the Billboard Hot 100 with “Kissin’ Time” in 1959. He followed that up with “We Got Love,” which earned him his first gold record. In all, Rydell scored 34 records in the Hot 100, placing 8 songs in the Top 20. Despite earning multiple gold records, Rydell never had a #1 hit – his best-selling record, “Wild One” stalling at #2.
Today, Rydell is best remembered for two things – co-starring with Ann-Margaret in the movie version of Bye Bye Birdie in 1963 and having the high school in the wildly successful musical Grease named after him.
Rydell continued to perform and tour right up until his passing, often with fellow teen idols Frankie Avalon and Fabian.
Avoid These Debt Scams
By now, most of us have received that robocall, supposedly from “the I.R.S.,” that they are about to file suit against us unless we call the number they leave. And most of us should know this is an out-and-out scam.
But here are a few more ways con artists try to scam you into believing their “debt collectors:”
Demanding payment on a debt you don’t remember incurring – Some fraudsters prey on the memory challenges some older people may experience, claiming they represent some back or credit card company. Maybe you have or did have an account with such an organization. If you don’t think you owe them any money, hang up on the caller and get into contact with that company on your own. Odds are, you don’t owe them anything.
Inflating an actual debt – Sometimes debt collectors will artificially jack up the amount of a legitimate debt you owe, hoping your ignorance of the law will allow them to collect more than they’re due. This process is known as “biffing” (from the term Balance In Full or BIF). One company was known to add so many artificial “fees” that it could increase the amount owed to 7x what the original debt was. If you think this may be happening to you, check with a reliable attorney before paying anything.
Collecting a “zombie” debt – Most debt is legally uncollectible after several years. Just because a debt collection agency is badgering you with repeated demands for payment doesn’t mean you’re legally obligated. As with “biffing,” seek legal advice if you’re in doubt about whether a debt is actually collectible.
“A lawsuit will be filed!” – This is almost always a pure scam. If a company is entitled to legal relief, they will just go ahead and file, then offer you a chance to pay up to have the suit dropped. No one calls you from the courthouse steps threatening to take action. No one but a con artist, that is.
Cutting Back on Sugar: A Few Suggestions
As we get older, most of us are cautioned to cut back on the sweet stuff. Here are some alternatives that can allow you to enjoy some treats without causing your doctor to get too concerned.
Fruit instead of fruit juice – Most fruit juices have added sugars (check the ingredients), so skip the apple juice and treat yourself to an actual apple instead.
Sparkling water instead of soda – You know how sugar-loaded most carbonated beverages are. There are a large variety of flavor-infused sparkling water drinks that have no sugar at all. Or buy some plain sparkling water and add your own orange or other slice.
Homemade salad dressing instead of store-bought – Most store brands have added sugar. You can make any number of dressings yourself with zero sugar added.
Four Fab Facts About The Fab Four
- The last time all four Beatles were in the studio at the same time working on a song was when they were recording “I Want You (She’s So Heavy)” from Abbey Road, recorded on August 20, 1969.
- While everyone knows that Lennon & McCartney were the primary songwriting duo, there is actually one Beatle song credited to Lennon & Harrison. It’s a pure instrumental called “Cry for a Shadow,” recorded in 1962 in Hamburg, Germany during sessions the boys cut backing up Tony Sheridan. It was finally released on the Beatles Anthology I set in 1995. It was of the only official recordings featuring Pete Best on drums.
- On the cover their Help! Album, people think the lads are spelling out “Help” in semaphore, but actually, the flags spell our ‘N-U-J-V.” (You’ll also notice that Capitol Records changed the position of the Beatles so they’re spelling out “N-V-U-J” in the States.)
The first Beatle to perform in America was George Harrison. His sister married an American and settled in Illinois. George came to visit her long before Beatlemania took hold and performed a few times with local Illinois bands.
6 Things You Didn’t Know About the Film "The Graduate"
Mike Nichols’ 1967 breakthrough film, The Graduate, was a surprise blockbuster that signaled to studios baby Boomers were ready for more than Walt Disney movies. The film boosted the careers of Dustin Hoffman & Katherine Ross (making them A-list stars overnight) as well as providing a huge lift to the musical careers of Paul Simon & Art Garfunkel (and indirectly resulting in an acting career for Garfunkel).
But here are a few things you might not know about it:
1.) The film’s legendary ending came about by accident. Much has been written about The Graduate’s ending, where Benjamin & Elaine board a bus and then look at each other in a prolonged nervous silence that seems to indicate this isn’t a traditional happy ending. Still, there may be problems for these two down the line.
That ending was never planned. It came about because, on the day that scene was filmed, director Mike Nichols couldn’t be there. He left the film’s editor, Sam O’Steen in charge. O’Steen, very green when it came to directing, didn’t know enough to call out “cut,” so Hoffman and Ross sat there for several moments unsure if the scene was over or, really, what to do next.
When Nichols saw the footage, he liked it and left it in the film.
2.) Hoffman had to give up a part in Mel Brooks’ original version of The Producers to take the part in The Graduate. Brooks had cast Hoffman as Franz Leibkind, the German playwright, a small but flashy part in the film. He totally understood why Hoffman wanted to give that part up to take a lead role. Besides, Hoffman would be appearing with a co-star who was Brooks’ wife, Anne Bancroft!
3.) Mrs. Robinson was really only 6 years older than Benjamin. Although Benjamin is supposed to be a recent college graduate, Hoffman himself was 29 when he got the part. And Bancroft, at 35, was younger than the character she was playing.
4.) None of the characters who are older than Benjamin have first names. Despite boinking on a regular basis, Benjamin always calls his lover, “Mrs. Robinson.” Her first name is never mentioned. That holds true for all other characters in the film who are older than Benjamin & Elaine.
5.) Gene Hackman was cast in the film but fired. Hackman was originally set to play Mr. Robinson, but director Nichols thought he looked too young (he was actually a year older than Bancroft). So, his part was recast. Don’t feel bad for Hackman. That same year, he also had a part in a little film called Bonnie & Clyde, which launched him on a long & successful film career.
6.) That iconic leg Hoffman is looking at in the movie’s poster and the best-selling soundtrack album does not belong to Anne Bancroft. Instead, producers hired a young model for that shot and paid her $25. That model was Linda Evans, who went on the fame on Dallas and later played Mrs. Robinson in stage version of The Graduate on Broadway and London’s West End.
Giving It Their Best Shot
As many have suspected and more than a few predicted, it looks like COVID will be here for the long haul. To make things easy, researchers are already working on a combination flu & COVID vaccine. They say it should be ready by the fall of 2022.
So, it will reduce the number of times you need to be jabbed. And that’s a good thing, right?
Buy Now, Pay Later?
What to Know Before You Click That Option
“But now, pay later” has long been a classic marketing come-on for decades, but lately, it’s been popping up as an option for online purchase. And signs are more of us are using that option. Use of BNPL (Buy now, pay later) is up 80% since 2020. Here are some facts to keep in mind:
1.) BNPL can be used instead of a credit card. Most times, but not always, the purchases are offered interest-free.
2.) Be aware, however, some do charge you interest from jump street. Moreover, should you be late or fall behind in your payments, it can trigger late charges and interest on the unpaid balance.
3.) Unlike credit cards or some online pay services, like PayPal, there is no buyer protection should you fail to get the product or service you ordered. And you may experience problems returning items should you change your mind about a purchase.
4.) Buy now, pay later can encourage you to spend more than you should. Missing or late payments can affect your credit rating, so make sure you’re budgeting correctly.
The Story Behind the Song – “Moonlight Feels Right”
A song that came to embody the summer of 1976, Starbuck’s one and only hit, “Moonlight Feels Right” took its sweet time getting there.
The song was written by the band’s lead vocalist and keyboard player, Bruce Blackman. Blackman was a Mississippi boy who was instantly smitten with a picture he saw of a young girl that was posted on someone’s dorm room at Mississippi Delta Community College. He was so obsessed, he demanded to know the girl’s name and where he could find her. Her name was Peggy Denman and she was enrolled at the school.
Blackman immediately enrolled at the college himself, purely to see if he could meet her. He did meet her, but she was less than thrilled with him. He asked her out. She turned him down. He asked her out again. She turned him down again. Not discouraged, Blackman asked a third time while she was walking across campus on a very windy day. This time, she said yes.
Not only did Blackman have a date with his dream girl, he also had the beginnings of some song lyrics: “The wind blew some luck in my direction…” Eventually, he had a whole song worked out. He didn’t think a community college sounded very romantic, so he moved his lovers’ alma mater to Ole Miss in the lyrics – the school both he & Peggy had wanted to attend, but couldn’t afford. He also moved the song’s location up to Baltimore hoping that might encourage airplay in areas outside the south.
Blackman took his band, Starbuck, into the studio in the fall of 1975 to record it. One of his bandmates, Bo Wagner, improvised a very unusual solo for the record, playing the marimba – a percussion instrument like a xylophone not normally associated with rock & roll. Starbuck’s record label liked the song, but hated the marimba. They told Blackman to cut it out. Blackman refused. Instead, he and the band loaded up a car with a box of the singles and took off, crisscrossing the South, dropping off their song at radio stations and lobbying DJs to give it a chance.
Only one station told him they really liked the song, WERC in Birmingham, Alabama. But the program director thought it sounded more like a warm weather song, so he told the band he would give it shot in late spring. They thought he was just finding a polite way to blow them off, so Starbuck went on their way. Discouraged, the band gave up on promoting the record and returned to performing around the South.
But WERC had been serious. As the weather turned warm in 1976, they played “Moonlight Feels Right.” The response was immediate, positive and heavy. Before long, the song had become a regional and then a national hit, reaching #3 on the Billboard Hot 100 and #2 on the magazine’s Easy Listening chart.
While the band never had another hit record, Blackman has continued performing and also producing other musical acts. Oh, and he eventually married Peggy Denman. They remain married to this day.
Never underestimate the power of lucky wind.
10 of Rock’s Greatest Love Songs
For as long as long as rock music’s been around (65+ years and counting), the #1 topic in its songs has been, far and away, love. When it’s going right, when it’s gone wrong, when it’s new, when it’s stood the test of time, when it never really was – love is all around, all you need and a 4-letter word.
We would be presumptuous if we said this is a list of “the” greatest rock love songs. Choices, especially in this category, are always intensely personal. It’s the song that always makes you think of that one man or woman, the one that reminds you of a specific time and place or simply one that helped you get through a tough time when you thought you’d never love again.
Here’s our list. What’s on yours?
Something – The Beatles
George Harrison’s exquisite ode to his then-wife Pattie Boyd. A song so beautiful even Frank Sinatra named it as one of the greatest compositions ever (and we know how Frank felt about rock in general).
- Walk Away Renée – Left Banke
Not all great love songs are written about happy love affairs or even about bad break-ups. This classic was written by Michael Brown about a love that never was. He was hopelessly in love with a young girl named Renée Fladen, but even writing this classic didn’t melt her heart. She never ever gave him a tumble.
- Faithfully – Journey
Written by Journey keyboard player Jonathan Cain in about a half hour, the composer claimed the melody came to him in a dream. He also said the lyrics were inspired by his Christian faith. That may give you something to think about the next time you hear it.
- Have I Told You Lately That I Love You – Van Morrison
Speaking of Christian faith, this deeply felt love song was composed by Van Morrison not about a woman. The song is actually about God. The song has been covered by dozens of artists (Rod Stewart took it into the Top 10), most of whom, we’ll bet, are unaware of this fact.
- She’s the One – Bruce Springsteen
At the opposite end of the spiritiual spectrum, if there’s a better song that expresses the sweet torture of pure carnal yearning for someone who may not be the wisest choice for you, we haven’t heard it. “With her soft French cream, standing in that doorway like a dream, I wish she’s just leave me alone.” And yet, you know that’s neither what he really wants, nor what’s going to happen.
- Time After Time – Cyndi Lauper
Believe it or not, the inspiration for this song was the 1979 science-fiction film, Time After Time. Unsurprisingly, the song’s lyrics arose from the romantic problems the tune’s co-authors, Lauper & Rob Hyman, were having with their respective significant others.
- More Than a Feeling – Boston
The song that introduced the world to Boston remains their best and most recognizable song. Composer/guitarist, Tom Scholz credits another song on this list as his main inspiration – “Walk Away Renée.”
How Deep Is Your Love – Bee Gees
While disco eventually imploded, it’s worth remembering that not all of that music was bad. In fact, the Bee Gees created truly great pop songs before, during and after the dance craze. This song, coming at the height of the craze and the Bee Gees' career, has stood the test of time.
- Wonderful Tonight – Eric Clapton
Impossible as it may seem, this tender ballad was also written about Pattie Boyd when she was married to Harrison’s best friend, Eric Clapton (who also penned “Layla” in her honor). Written while Clapton was waiting for her to get ready for an evening on the town.
- Just the Way You Are – Billy Joel
Billy Joel captured what every woman longs to hear from her significant other and makes the lyrics and melody flow so effortlessly, this remains one of the best expressions of a love that endures one day at time.
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